A few days ago I posted on The Four Major Needs of a Man so, today I will share my notes on what I learned about what women want! my notes on what women want are less then the one for the man, of course ;)
Agian (like in the post of Mans needs),
there are 3 major problems in marriage
1. You cant change the unchangeable
-Your spouse is the opposite of you and that is normal, you are supposed to be different
-Some needs cannot be met by another person only by God
2. When you reject your spouse needs, you are rejecting her
-Meeting needs closes doors to other temptations
-Accept your spouses needs as being valid.
-Denying her needs being met will result in an unhealthy marriage.
- Marriage is designed to die to self
-Rejecting her needs is selfish
-You are a good wife/husband till he/she says you are.
-Jesus came to serve not to be served.
-Be servants towards each other.
What Women Want
~Be concerned, come to her world -what doesn't bother a man bothers a women
~She needs your strength and understanding
~Be there to help
~Husbands love your wives as God loved the church
~Be a faithful provider
~Study her- want her heart
2. Soft non-sexual affection = the more sexual women become
~Romance- meeting an unspoken need
~You value her
~Emotional connection = Security
~Hold her hand, wrap your arms around her
3. Open & Honest Communication
~Emotional information (It is not that she is nosey, its that she cares)
~Communicate is not just words its also feelings & emotions
~Talk with her whether you feel like it or not
~Communication is oxygen to her
~Opening up = healing and re-wiring
women can fix men (their emotions or what is holding them back) if they let them
(Doesn't mean dominance)
~Women want their husbands to help...
*discipline their children
*Romance - intimate
*Finances- Budget together
*Spiritual- Pray, go to church
The definition of a HUSBAND = a grower
husbands you can nurish (protect), feed, mature your wife - physically, emotionally and spiritually.
well men, there you have it. now, go and put these 4 needs into practice!!